So my wife, daughter and I live in North County San Diego, Poway School District area. We've lived here since we were 10 years old, now getting into our 30's. Most of my family lives back in the Midwest, Minnesota/Wisconsin area. My parents moved to NorCal about 8 years ago. We really want to stay and buy a home here. Currently renting. But honestly I'm starting to wonder if that's just a pipe dream and if we should just give up and move to the Midwest for cheaper home prices and crappy weather.
We make about 105K annually. We have $20,000 in savings. Obviously that means PMI for just about anything out here. Just a tiny amount in 401k as our employers both do not offer any matching. My wife has had her job for 10 years, got into upper management. I've had my job for one year. We don't have any debts other than a car loan that still has about 10K principle left and we've never missed a payment. Our credit bounces between 680 and 720 depending on our outstanding credit card bills which get paid off every month (or so).
Other than that we have regular bills, cell phone, groceries, utilities etc but we pay all that in cash/credit that gets paid off routinely. We pay $1800 to rent 2 BDR/1 Bth, not including utilities.
I am currently going back to school for I.T./Programming in the hopes of increasing my wages and moving career fields. But those are eggs that haven't hatched yet.
We want more space. We'd like to build equity so our money isn't just disappearing into a hole every month. We'd like to own property. We'd like to stay in the Poway school system, as we've lived here most of our lives.
But is that even a possibility for us? Home prices are basically 500K+. Condos/Townhomes don't go much lower than that either, maybe 400K+ at best. Anything below that is a trailer in a trailer-park which just seems like a bad investment as literally everyone I know who lives in trailer parks has lived there a long time and never gotten out.
Honestly prices here make me feel defeated like we should just give up and resign ourselves to move to the Midwest closer to some of my family and buy a huge house for half the price.
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